Why Honor Killings Represent Ideological Violence Against Women

In Arizona, a week ago today, 20 year old woman Noor Almaleki died.

Some have reported that her murder by her father was another instance of unfortunate domestic violence.  But the fact is that her murder was another instance of an ideological violence against women that we must challenge as a threat to our universal human rights here and around the world.

20 Year Old Noor Almaleki - Died on November 2, 2009 - A Victim of An Ideological Violence Against Women
20 Year Old Noor Almaleki – Died on November 2, 2009 – A Victim of An Ideological Violence Against Women

Such acts of violence against women based on an ideology are more than “isolated incidents.” Such ideological violence is a human rights challenge that defies our universal human rights.   Many seek to dismiss an ideological femicide to oppress women by explaining away such violence based on ignorance, cultural backwardness, or “tribal traditions.”   Moreover, others point to the fact that “honor killings” are also performed by other identity groups around the world, which is absolutely true.

But in the case of the murder of Noor Almaleki on November 2, the family repeatedly told members of the Arizona press that the reason why her father murdered her had to do with his religious extremist views on what they called “traditional Muslim values.”  This was the reason explained for her father’s willingness to murder her.

While the Arizona Republic and CBS-5 specifically and repeatedly quote both Noor Almaleki’s family and brother as explaining her death based on her failure “to live by traditional Muslim values,” CNN has repeatedly ignored these reports and reports her death due to “Iraqi values.” It ignores such reports by Arizona media, even when the Almalekis moved to the United States 15 years ago.

We ask CNN to review this story and report all of the facts so that the public can be informed, and so that others can challenge the Almaleki family’s allegations that “traditional Muslim values” prohibit freedom for women, including Noor Almaleki.

Extremist-rationalized “honor killings” are different than other domestic violence and violence against women, and until the basis for such ideological violence against women is recognized and discussed, we cannot prevent such violence from continuing and spreading.  We must call for the mainstream media to start connecting the dots and doing the research on the ideological basis behind such violence and report this to the American people.

There is a distinct and global misogynist extremist challenge to women that we repeatedly see from those who rationalize such misogyny with an extremist ideology towards human rights.  We cannot continue to ignore the ideological basis behind such extremist violence.  Over and over, the perpetrators and those involved with such violence make reference specifically to extremist views towards human rights.

Noor Almaleki is not the first such ideological “honor killing” in the United States.  There have been others in Dallas, in Georgia, in Cleveland, in Indianapolis, and one suspected in Buffalo.  There are others who report that they have been threatened with harm, such as Rifqa Bary, in Columbus.  Such ideological violence against girls and women in the United States is the tip of the iceberg of thousands of such women murdered with such ideological rationalization around the world as we have reported.

Such ideological “honor killings” are just one more link in a larger extremist rationalized ideological chain that seeks to oppress women around the world, not only to deny them equality, but to intimidate and subjugate them to being less than human – not entitled to human rights at all, but only granted privileges to serve those who would oppress them.  We see this not only in the ideological “honor killings,” but also in the recent Global Gender Gap index which illustrates the hundreds of millions of women in predominantly Islamic countries that live under oppression today – many of the same countries that are the worst offenders of human trafficking.  At our blog, we have endless reports of one abuse after another and another based on an ideological oppression of women rationalized by extremism.

Such ideological “honor killings” are not crimes of passion or crimes of tribal tradition.   They are acts of ideological violence intended to remind women of their position of servitude and submission to those extremists who believe they are women’s “masters.”  As we call for the improvement for human rights for all women around the world, as Americans we must also demand that the truth be told about those who seek to promote ideological hate and oppression against women in our country today.  We must continue to demand that our media report on this issue to inform our citizens and to put pressure on our government to take action – to demand that such ideological violence against women ends.

When we see other ideological violence intended to provoke fear and intimidate others, we have a name for it: “terrorism.”  We won’t see such ideological violence and oppression against women addressed by counterterrorism organizations – that focus on who, what, where, and when – but have decided to leave the issue of why regarding ideological violence occurs… to someone else.

That someone else is us.  That is our challenge in being Responsible for Equality And Liberty – to speak for those who can’t speak any more and to speak for the oppressed who live in fear to speak out for their universal human rights — including those in America today.  Noor Almaleki’s friends feared speaking to reporters for fear of what would happen to them.  That is the terrorism against women – too common around the world – that continues to find its way to America.  This is the same terrorism against women that our news media refuses to effectively report on.  The is the same terrorism against women that our government refuses to act on.  We must demand that our media recognize such terrorism against women for what it is and to recognize and defy those extremist ideologies that seek our silence.

Other Reports:

Facebook Page: “R.I.P Noor Faleh Almaleki”

Arizona: Terrorism Against Women — Noor Almaleki Just Wanted To Be Normal

Arizona — Noor Almaleki “Honor Killing”: Hassan Almaleki Arraignment Delayed, On Suicide Watch

Arizona — Noor Almaleki Honor Killing: Father To Be Arraigned, Face New Charges

Arizona: Woman in Suspected “Honor Killing” Dies — 20 Year Old Noor Almaleki

Arizona — Noor Almaleki Case: Arizona Jails Father in ‘Honor Killing’ Try

Arizona: Noor Almaleki Case — Father in “Honor Killing” Attempt Captured in UK — Extradited Back to US

Arizona — Noor Almaleki case: Family Says Noor Almaleki “Failed to Live by Traditional Muslim Values” — Woman in Critical Condition in Alleged “Honor Killing” Attempt

Arizona: Noor Almaleki’s Lifestyle may have put woman in hospital

Arizona: Father runs down daughter in Peoria parking lot — Noor Faleh Almaleki attacked for being “too westernized”

Kansas City: Arranged “Marriage Contract” of 14-year old Girl Reportedly Based on “Islamic” Views

— Kansas City Star: Man charged with statutory rape in ‘marriage’ to 14-year-old girl
— Kansas City Star reports:
— “The stepfather, Mosby and the teen had several ‘sit downs’ before the stepfather arranged for a religious ceremony on Aug. 4 at her home, not far from the stepfather’s mosque.”
— “Two members of the mosque attended, but the bride ‘was not allowed to be present,’ court records said. She waited in her room upstairs. Her stepfather allegedly came upstairs after the ceremony, which consisted of prayers and a contract signing, to announce that she was married.”
— “Police say they have the ‘marriage contract’ with the signatures of Mosby, the girl and the stepfather.”
— “In Islam, boys and girls are considered adults based on when they hit puberty, and people in some parts of the world do marry young, said Mahnaz Shabbir of Stilwell, a past president of the Heartland Muslim Council.”

Arizona: Terrorism Against Women – Noor Almaleki Just Wanted To Be Normal

— Arizona Republic/AP: “Glendale ‘honor killing’ victim, 20, just wanted to be normal”
— second AP web link to story
— Facebook Page: “R.I.P Noor Faleh Almaleki”

Other R.E.A.L reports on Noor Almaleki “honor killing”

Arizona Republic/AP: “Glendale ‘honor killing’ victim, 20, just wanted to be normal”

Noor Faleh Almaleki just wanted to be a normal American woman

The striking 20-year-old from Iraq, who’d lived in the Valley since she was a young girl, wanted her hair and makeup to be perfect, her clothes to be fashionable. She wanted a job, a degree and a husband of her choosing.

On her Facebook page, Noor posted photos of herself and wrote: “I am spectacular,” punctuated with a smiley face emoticon. But Noor’s father had a much different ideal for his daughter: a life in strict line with traditional Iraqi culture.

He made her quit her fast-food restaurant job and arranged for her to marry a man in Iraq she didn’t know, according to friends and family.

Finally, police say, 48-year-old Faleh Hassan Almaleki put an end to what he perceived to be his daughter’s rebellious life. Using his Jeep as a weapon, he allegedly ran her down in a parking lot Oct. 20 in what prosecutors are calling an “honor killing” to cleanse what he considered were indiscretions to the family’s honor.

Noor underwent spinal surgery and was in a coma until her death on Monday. Another woman struck by the Jeep, the mother of Noor’s boyfriend, was expected to survive. Marcella Andregg, a friend for seven years, described Noor as independent, but far from rebellious and always respectful of her parents. She said Noor just wanted to live her own life, but that her father wouldn’t let her.

“His whole persona was very controlling, very strong-minded in the ways he wanted it for her,” Andregg said. “He talked down to her very much, made sure she knew she wasn’t good enough and brought a lot of dishonor to the family.”

Meanwhile, she said, Noor “just wanted to be a normal teenager,” and later, wanted to finish college, marry the man she loved, and have children.

Almaleki, who fled after the attack, was stopped at London’s airport and sent back to the U.S. on Oct. 29. He was on suicide watch in a Phoenix jail and has declined requests for comment. It’s unclear whether he yet has a lawyer.

Noor and her family moved to the U.S. in the mid-1990s and lived in Glendale.

In 2008, friends say Almaleki took Noor to Iraq under the guise of visiting family. Actually, he had picked out a husband for her and told her she couldn’t return to Arizona unless she married him. Noor married the man and returned, and friends say he was in the process of trying to move here, too.

But Noor fell in love with another man, friends say, and was living in his home with his mother when she was killed.

About 50 friends and family attended a candlelight vigil Thursday night for Noor in the parking lot where she was run down. Her mother and several others wept as they stood in a circle holding candles, hugging each other and remembering the young woman.

“This was the last place that Noor was herself,” said Andregg, who helped organize the vigil. “It’s a hard place to be, especially for her mom, I know. I just think it was appropriate to be here instead of at a park or a cemetery.”

Despite all her family troubles, Andregg and several other friends say Noor rarely if ever spoke about them.

“She always had a smile on her face,” said Niki Nia, 18, of Scottsdale. “When people weren’t getting along, she would always try to bring peace between them, and I think a lot of that had to do with what was happening at home. She wanted her social life to be peaceful.” Nia said Noor might be in a better place now. “She never would have been able to escape,” she said.

Jim Heinrich, who was Noor’s yearbook teacher at Dysart High School, said Noor affected many students’ lives.

“One of them told me, We had everything we wanted and she had a lot of difficulties and she never complained.’ She always knew her life would be OK,” Heinrich said. “She was one of those people — it’s like her spirit was bigger than her body. You were just very aware that she was there in a good way.”

Phillip Pimentel, another friend of Noor’s living in Japan, wrote in an e-mail that Noor never spoke to him about her troubles at home.

“What I’ll remember and miss most about her is that she seemed happy,” wrote Pimentel, 21. “Worry-free, full of hopes and dreams of the future. Such a shame that such a good person with so much going for herself was taken at such an early age.”

Noor now has a second Facebook page, started by the people who are mourning her death. More than 1,600 had joined as of Friday.

On the page, underneath a photo of Noor shown with a soft smile and her hair blowing, is a message that reads:

“May Noor Almaleki and all other victims of senseless honor killings rest in peace. And may God be the guardian of others who are in danger of sharing that fate. And may we all do something to end honor killings once and for all.”

20-year-old Noor Faleh Almaleki
20-year-old Noor Faleh Almaleki

Other Reports:

Arizona — Noor Almaleki “Honor Killing”: Hassan Almaleki Arraignment Delayed, On Suicide Watch

Arizona — Noor Almaleki Honor Killing: Father To Be Arraigned, Face New Charges

Arizona: Woman in Suspected “Honor Killing” Dies — 20 Year Old Noor Almaleki

Arizona — Noor Almaleki Case: Arizona Jails Father in ‘Honor Killing’ Try

Arizona: Noor Almaleki Case — Father in “Honor Killing” Attempt Captured in UK — Extradited Back to US

Arizona — Noor Almaleki case: Family Says Noor Almaleki “Failed to Live by Traditional Muslim Values” — Woman in Critical Condition in Alleged “Honor Killing” Attempt

Arizona: Noor Almaleki’s Lifestyle may have put woman in hospital

Arizona: Father runs down daughter in Peoria parking lot — Noor Faleh Almaleki attacked for being “too westernized”

Somalia: Extremists Stone Man to Death Before Crowd – Pregnant Woman to Follow After She Gives Birth

— BBC: “Somali adulterer stoned to death”
— “Islamists in southern Somalia have stoned a man to death for adultery but spared his pregnant girlfriend until she gives birth.”
— “Abas Hussein Abdirahman, 33, was killed in front of a crowd of some 300 people in the port town of Merka.”
— “An official from the al-Shabab group said the woman would be killed after she has had her baby.”
— “Islamist groups run much of southern Somalia, while the UN-backed government only control parts of the capital.”
— “This is the third time Islamists have stoned a person to death for adultery in the past year.”
— “Al-Shabab official Sheikh Suldan Aala Mohamed said Mr Abdirahman had confessed to adultery before an Islamic court.”
— ” ‘He was screaming and blood was pouring from his head during the stoning. After seven minutes he stopped moving,’ an eyewitness told the BBC.”
— “The BBC’s Mohammed Olad Hassan in Mogadishu says that if the woman is also killed, her baby would be given to relatives to look after.”

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Arizona – Noor Almaleki “Honor Killing”: Hassan Almaleki Arraignment Delayed, On Suicide Watch

Arizona Republic: “Glendale dad accused in ‘honor killing’ on suicide watch
— “A Glendale father accused of slaying his daughter for being too ‘Westernized’ is under suicide watch in a Maricopa County jail, court officials said Thursday.”
— “Faleh Hassan Almaleki, 48, an immigrant from Iraq, is accused of running over his daughter, 20-year-old Noor Almaleki, and another woman in a Peoria parking lot on Oct. 20. His daughter died Nov. 2 of injuries sustained during the attack.”
— “Prosecutors say Almaleki was enraged over his daughter’s defiance of Iraqi and Muslim traditions. She reportedly had married a man in Iraq but returned to the United States and was living with her boyfriend and his mother, who was the second victim.”
— “Police said Almaleki fled the country after the attack, driving to Mexico and later taking a plane to London. He was detained by British authorities and extradited to Atlanta last week.”
— “Almaleki’s arraignment, which was scheduled for Thursday morning in Superior Court, has been delayed because of the apparent suicide threat.”

Faleh Hassan Almaleki (Left) and Murdered Noor Faleh Almaleki (Right)
Faleh Hassan Almaleki (Left) and Murdered Noor Faleh Almaleki (Right)

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Pakistan: Taliban kill two female teachers in Bajaur

Pakistan: Taliban kill two female teachers in Bajaur
— Pakistan Daily Times:
“Two female schoolteachers were killed on Wednesday when the Taliban ambushed their car in Shandai Mor, two kilometres from Khar in Bajaur Agency. Shazia Begum and Shamim Bibi, teachers at the Communal Girls School, were travelling from the school when terrorists fired on the vehicle, killing the two and injuring two others.”

Arizona – Noor Almaleki Honor Killing: Father To Be Arraigned, Face New Charges

— Arizona Republic reports: “Glendale father to be arraigned in ‘honor killing’ case”
— “An Iraqi immigrant accused of slaying his own daughter for becoming ‘too Westernized’ will be arraigned in Maricopa County Superior Court on Thursday morning.”
— “Prosecutors say Faleh Hassan Almaleki, 48, of Glendale, conducted an ‘honor killing’ on his own daughter because he felt she had shamed the family by not following traditional Iraqi or Muslim values.”

— KPHO reports: “Dad To Face New Charges In Daughter’s Death”
— “A Glendale father accused of running down his daughter because she was too Westernized faces arraignment Thursday in Maricopa County Superior Court.”
— “Prosecutors are expected file harsher charges against 48-year-old Iraqi immigrant Faleh Hassan Almaleki in the death of his daughter, 20-year-old Noor Faleh Almaleki.”
— “Faleh Almaleki was originally charged with two counts of aggravated assault.”
— “Peoria police spokesman Mike Tellef said detectives and Maricopa County prosecutors are determining what the new charges against Almaleki will be.”

Faleh Hassan Almaleki (Left) and Murdered Noor Faleh Almaleki (Right)
Faleh Hassan Almaleki (Left) and Murdered Noor Faleh Almaleki (Right)