The Challenge of the Anti-Islam and the Extremist Movements

Introduction: Responsible for Equality and Liberty (R.E.A.L.) represents a coalition of individuals that come together periodically to challenge human rights abuses and to promote human rights. To be consistent on such universal human rights, at times, we must also raise controversial issues as well. It is easy to be brave from a distance. But if we believe in the inalienable human rights of equality and liberty for all, sometimes we need to get close to issues that challenge our fellow human beings. We hope to offer solutions of peace, respect, and hope to all. We support the universal human rights of all people of all identity groups and all religions, without exception, without caveat.
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I reject the views of the Anti-Islam movement, and I respect the religious liberty of all human beings, including my Muslim brothers and sisters in humanity. But I also reject the silence from our society, media, and our institutions on too many on extremists who rationalize oppression of human rights, hate, and violence based on the extremist views on what they believe justifies a religious “culture.” The failure to consistently address both extremist views will continue to lead to increasing human rights and security challenges in the United States and around the world.

In the past month, we have seen mirror images of ideological terrorists in Europe and in the United States: terrorist Anders Behring Breivik in Norway and failed terrorist Naser Abdo in Texas. Both terrorists believe they represent opposite ideological views, but they represent a common threat to our human rights and security.

The common argument by both ends of the spectrum has been an ideological view toward creating closed “cultures.”  Both the Anti-Islam movement and the Bin Ladenist ideologues have rationalized terrorism to support closed cultures that they believe are not only more important than human rights, but also more important even than human lives. Furthermore, the neglect by media, our governments, international agencies, too many counterterrorists, and too many human rights groups to seriously discuss this problem is the fear of offending anyone’s view of “culture.”

Our cultures do matter. But our shared universal human rights and human dignity are what truly unite us as a human race. Our shared human rights are not only the basis for cultures of life and dignity, but also the basis for security and peace.

1. The Breivik Terrorist Attack

On July 22, 2011, 77 children, women, and men were killed in Olso, Norway at the hands of a terrorist who claimed that his actions were to promote his Anti-Islam views. As that nation remembers the loss of their fellow citizens and loved ones, it is past time to have a more serious reflection on the ideological claims of the confessed Oslo terrorist Anders Behring Breivik, and the consequences of his ideological views.

The week after the terrorist attack, the mainstream media discovered a video that Breivik made and a “manifesto” that he sent out on email. It listed a number of Anti-Islam leaders and writings by others, and the news media latched onto the Anti-Islam leaders, blaming them as individuals for Breivik’s terrorist activities. The Anti-Islam leaders defended themselves and rejected such associations, stating they were opposed to violence.

There is no question that Mr. Breivik is the individual responsible for and accountable for his crimes and terrorism. He and he alone is accountable for his actions, his cruel and vicious murder of women, children, and others. He is not a hero, but a criminal. He is not a visionary, but a common killer.

But Breivik’s use of the Anti-Islam ideology for violence is not the isolated incident that some believe, and it is important for human rights and security that it is addressed. His violent terrorism may have been the first, but he is not alone in his calls for violence among Anti-Islam activists. Breivik’s July 22 attack is not the first violence we have seen from the Anti-Islam campaigns.

The Anti-Islam movement is not only growing in numbers, it also is increasingly becoming a security and human rights challenge itself.

2. The Growing Challenge of the Anti-Islam Movement

After the 9/11 attacks, a number of Americans, and then Europeans began to fear future attacks from violent individuals who shared the extremist ideology of Osama Bin Laden.  They sought to understand the ideology and rationale behind such attacks. Some sought to consistently challenge a Bin Ladenist extremist ideology which would use Islamic religious views to rationalize human rights and security threats. But as the mainstream media, governments, and traditional human right groups ignored this, some became more hard-lined in their thinking and political in their organization.  This created a significant divide among people with this concern.  Some remained concerned about Bin Ladenist ideologies and their followers; others sought to blame Islam itself for such terrorism and abuse of human rights.  This latter group began to form an Anti-Islam movement.

With the example of the success that American Tea-Party style activism found with conservative politicians, some Anti-Islam activists began to start to build a political movement of their own.  (This began less than a year after our own R.E.A.L. human rights coalition had started to offer a consistent view on human rights issues.)

There are many who have been outraged by the actions of Bin Ladenists.   The outrage towards such extremists was coupled with a sense of abandonment and fear, in believing that traditional government and human rights groups were not concerned about the Bin Ladenist ideological views. As those with Bin Ladenist views have sought to threaten human rights and security, some have gravitated towards populist leaders in the Anti-Islamic movement.

In Europe, groups such as the Stop Islamisation of Europe (SIOE) and the English Defence League (EDL) were created. In the United States, the SIOE sought to create a version of their group in the United States called the Stop Islamization of America (SIOA) two years ago.   R.E.A.L. has been on the record as objecting to the SIOA and its message since the creation of the SIOA.

The Norway terrorist Anders Breivik used the ideas from such Anti-Islam groups as the rationale for his July 22 terrorist acts.  I have read much of Mr. Breivik’s “manifesto,” and I have seen his video that he released prior to his terrorist attack. There are a number of familiar names and familiar images. Anti-Islam terrorist Breivik has praised the SIOE and praised the EDL. In Breivik’s Anti-Islam manifesto, he quoted original SIOA leader D.L. Adams, as well as current SIOA leaders Robert Spencer and Pamela Geller. In addition, Breivik references European philosophers, and even counterterrorist analysts such as Evan Kohlmann, who have I met, and I know that Mr. Kohlmann adamantly rejects an Anti-Islam view. I have no doubt that Mr. Spencer (who was widely quoted in the Breivik manifesto) and others referenced in Breivik’s manifesto, were shocked and horrified by this, as any sane individual would be.

I have met Mr. Spencer and neither he nor Ms. Geller are the demons that the media have sought to portray them as. While I disagree with their views and their strategy, I have no doubt that they genuinely believe that what they are doing will protect American human rights and security. I met with Mr. Spencer several years ago and I shared his concern about those rationalizing human rights abuses in some parts of the world based on some extremist individuals’ and groups’ interpretation of Sharia.

The difference that Mr. Spencer and I have is that he believes the extremists are correctly interpreting Islam and Sharia. I believe that Muslims around the world all practice Islam differently and I know many Muslims who reject the views of extremists and Bin Ladenists who seek to deny human rights – based on any rationalization, including religious ones. We must support those who would promote human rights and dignity from within any religion and any identity group.

While I think Spencer and Geller are wrong in their Anti-Islam ideology and their approach, their voices once sought to challenge human rights abuses and terrorist threats from those who would rationalize their acts based on their extremist views of Islam. To gain attention from an apathetic public and government, they have pursued a political approach, taking over as the leaders of the SIOA group in the United States and seeking to align with political leaders. Two years ago, the original SIOA had only a few fringe members that sought to disrupt a Muslim prayer meeting on Capitol Hill. A year later, with the SIOA leadership taken over by Spencer and Geller, the SIOA led a massive protest with politicians against the Coroba House Islamic Center, and went on to coordinate anti-mosque campaigns elsewhere.

The emphasis moved from a concern about violent “jihad” and human rights concerns to political affiliations with other Anti-Islam activists groups, and a growing tolerance of Anti-Islam extremists – regardless of their tactics.

At the same time, the SIOA’s original sponsors, the SIOE began leading protests against mosques throughout the United Kingdom and Europe. The EDL then began even greater protests with larger public presence, which has drawn growing angry mobs. This attraction to anger has taken arguments that once condemned extremists and turned such groups into becoming havens for extremists themselves.

3. The Anti-Islam Movement’s Anger Attracts Hate and Violence

The political mass movement of the Anti-Islam movement has garnered greater populist support, but without a positive focus and with an emphasis on outrage, it has sometimes attracted not only angry, but also violent individuals.

The debate has also led to many in the Anti-Islam movement to shift from defending human rights to defending Western “culture” or “Western civilization.” This has led to their movement attracting individuals who will seek to “defend” such cultural views, using any means necessary – including some who promote hate and violence.

Frustration within the Anti-Islam movement has led individuals to move from outrage over human rights to alliances with those who will use even violence to defend what they view as Western “culture.”

Years ago before she led the SIOA, Pamela Geller sought sympathy for “honor killing” victims and led a fund-raising effort for a headstone for the unmarked grave of a girl Aqsa Parvez, who was a victim of such an “honor killing.” I donated to that cause out of concern for mercy and respect for the dead; whether that was naive or not, I felt pity for that child. As much as I disagree with Ms. Geller today, I appreciate what she did for Aqsa Parvez. There is no “honor” in murder, and “honor killings” are nothing than that – murder.

There is also no “honor” in promoting those who seek violence against innocent people. In 2010, SIOA leader Pamela Geller also repeatedly promoted and recruited for the English Defense League (EDL). The EDL is a British group whose mob protests have resulted in bricks thrown at policemobs attacking restaurants of helpless publicengaging in street fightsattacking the press, and mob violence across the United Kingdom. Their violent supporters are more than a few isolated extremists, as some would contend. The EDL’s leader, while claiming to promote a “Christian culture,” does so while using obscene language in his public speeches and has his own history of violence.

The Norweigian terrorist Breivik repeatedly praised the EDLpraised the SIOE, and he sought to join the SIOE group, which created the American SIOA group. The SIOE group states it rejected Breivik’s membership from their Facebook web site, but what the SIOE fails to ask itself is why individuals such as the terrorist Breivik sought to join their cause.  In June 2010, the same SIOE attracted Nazi supporters who sought to join their protest against a mosque in Denmark.

The SIOA leaders, including Mr. Spencer, have stated they rejected Mr. Breivik’s violence and indicated that they have never supported any violence. That certainly appears to be true. However, it is not the entire story.

In February 2010, Robert Spencer’s JihadWatch, which for years condemned terrorism, then issued an article dismissing an American terrorist attack in Austin, Texas as “simply Going Out With A Bang,” which we rejected. (Austin terrorist Joe Stack’s views were that “violence not only is the answer, it is the only answer.”)

In April 2010, Geller and Spencer took over the leadership of the SIOA political group. The populist campaign attracted angry individuals in the United States, just like it did in Europe.  In the United States, the SIOA marches became angry shouts and epithets, with SIOA supporters harassing even Egyptian Christian Copts at the 9/11 protest.

Since May 2010, the SIOA Facebook web page became a magnet not only for the outraged but also for those full of hate of hate, as well as numerous images of hate and violence. The SIOA Facebook web site became (and still is) full of images of violence, vulgarity, with numerous images that promote violence against Muslims and threats to kill “lieberals,”with images of feces and urination on the Qur’an, images of burning the Qur’an, images of animal sex, and the most depraved attacks on human beings.

One SIOA Facebook supporter, who relished in the depravity of the images by SIOA supporters there attacking Muslims, stated: “I am glad to know we have some capable of being able to reach them on the only level they seem to understand; total debasement.” This is the campaign that some Anti-Islam supporters seek, which has nothing to do with culture, nothing to do with human rights, and certainly nothing to do with human dignity.

At least three of the images in the video by the terrorist Breivik are identical to images that have been on the SIOA Facebook page for over a year – they are still there at the posting of this article, a month after Breivik’s terrorist attack.

Whether the terrorist Breivik got these violent images from the SIOA Facebook or another Anti-Islam source is unknown. But today, a month after the Oslo terrorist attack that killed 77, the images of violence and hate in Breivik’s video, remain on the SIOA Facebook website today.

There is no doubt that no one can hold the SIOA leaders accountable for the dozens and dozens of vulgar, foul, and violent images on the SIOA Facebook site, the threats of violence and hatred. Like Breivik’s actions, these are the responsibility of the individuals who made such statements and posted such images.

The SIOA supporters have freedom of speech to make such foul comments and postings, whether we like them or not. That is a freedom that we all have. But all freedoms come with responsibilities of accountability and even association – fair or unfair. It is the responsibility of the SIOA to demonstrate that their campaign rejects hate and rejects violence.

In addition, the SIOA Facebook site even became a magnet for those making death threats against those who would challenge their Anti-Islam views. When I discovered one such threat, I anonymously alerted the SIOA leadership and someone removed the posting (I also contacted the threatened individual and law enforcement).  SIOA leaders also removed the member from the Facebook site.

The challenge for the SIOA, SIOE, and the Anti-Islam movement is not “isolated” extremists in their groups, it is a consistent message of anger, hatred, and venom against Muslims that is an extremist message that resonates with angry and violent people.  That is where the NEXT Anders Breivik will come.

Calls for violence have become increasingly common within the Anti-Islam campaign, including in the websites of one of the SIOA’s leaders, Robert Spencer. In January 2011, Mr. Spencer’s JihadWatch website once again became the point of controversy from one of its contributors. This time, JihadWatch’s “Roland Shirk” called for Egyptian government to kill those Egyptians protesting for freedom against the tyrant Hosni Mubarak in the JihadWatch article “A Whiff of Grapeshot”, calling for a “Tienanmen Square” type massacre of the Egyptian protesters.  R.E.A.L. responded to this with our objections and calls for JihadWatch to remove such calls for violence.

Mr. Spencer no doubt rightly states that he objects to the violence by the terrorist Breivik. But it remains troubling that he has been so silent about the images of violence on the SIOA Facebook web page, as he is aware of the photos page, and made his own postings there.  It is troubling that he has been so silent for those calling for violence, even among his own writers, on his own website. Our intentions must be supported by our deeds.  I hope that the SIOA leaders choose to reconsider their position on the comments and images by their supporters.

I regret to any group that I have to point to these embarrassing and ugly instances among their supporters.  I can only imagine how I would feel if they pointed such instances out to me, and I genuinely feel sorry for them.   But if even a casual viewer can see these, surely their leaders must be able to do so.  They need to consider the consequences of pursuing such a path of negativity – both to our shared security and our human rights.

Such attractions of anger and hate have been facilitated by an ideological view that prioritizes “culture” over “human rights,” and that has been a consistent problem for such political groups as the SIOE and SIOA. The European parent group SIOE is proud of its slogan “Islamophobia is the height of common sense.” Three years ago, the SIOA website three years ago urged American activists that they should not worry about being “nice.” The original SIOA leader DL Adams stated that “Multiculturalism, tolerance, and ‘niceness’ are destroying the foundations of our cultures…”; this is the same DL Adams that the terrorist Breivik quoted in his manifesto against Islam and multiculturalism.

Let us never lose the ability to respect one another, no matter how much we disagree with one another.

When we prioritize the defense of a single culture over human rights, and when we allow human hate, not human rights, to become a voice for our campaigns, then we should question where we are going.

It would be optimistic to view that the Breivik terrorist attack was a wake-up call on the Anti-Islam extremism. I don’t believe it has been. We have had plenty of other warnings before this and acts of violence by Anti-Islam supporters that have also been ignored. Foolishly, some have sought to associate such violence only with the “right-wing,” which has mired this debate in political finger-pointing. We need to realize this problem is not limited to Breivik and not limited to only certain groups.
We have to challenge the Anti-Islam rejection of human rights and human dignity, by being consistent on these issues ourselves.

Furthermore, as I will describe in a separate writing, the Christian community needs to take responsibility and deal with the growing numbers of pastors and Christian leaders that have become involved in the Anti-Islam movement. This includes a growing number of Christian pastors, evangelists, and ministers who publicly show their affiliation and support the Anti-Islam SIOA group.

Christian leaders cannot look only to Muslim communities to challenge the extremists in their faith; Christian leaders must also own that same responsibility.

3. The Silence on Bin Ladenism

Shortly after Breivik’s terrorist attack on July 22, another accused terrorist Naser Abdo was arrested for allegedly planning a terrorist plot to kill soldiers at the Fort Hood Texas base. Naser Abdo’s case, like others, has been on the opposite end of the spectrum where individuals have rationalized violence and hate based on their extremist views of Islam.

Mr. Naser Abdo was a member of the American military who sought to reject his service because he is a Muslim. Whether you agree with the tactics, strategy, and actions of the American military in Afghanistan, let us be clear once again on who the Taliban are, and what they represent.

On August 19, 2011, the Taliban in Pakistan blew up a mosque killing an estimated 50 Muslims in the village Ghundi during Friday prayers. The mosque is in the Khyber region near the Afghan border. This terrorist attack during Ramadan demonstrates once again, who and what the Taliban really are – valueless killers and thugs, who readily will murder other Muslims. The same day, in Kabul, such terrorists attacked the British Council in Afghanistan killing another 8 individuals.

These terrorists are not acting on behalf of Islam or on behalf of Muslims. They are acting on behalf of their own ideology of violence and death, including killing fellow Muslims. They are acting on behalf of an ideology that rejects human rights and human lives.

Dr. M. Zhudi Jasser of the American Islamic Forum for Democracy (AIFD) wrote in the Wall Street Journal on August 18, speaking about the case of failed terrorist and Army Private Naser Abdo. According to Dr. Jasser, who is himself a Muslim veteran of the U.S. armed forces, “The vast majority of Muslims serve with honor and distinction. They are not the problem. The problem is the subset of Muslims who are Islamists.”

I understand the need to be sensitive to the feelings of Muslims on this issue, and for the purposes of this article I have described what Dr. Jasser calls as “Islamists” as “Bin Ladenists.” We have debated the lexicon and terms we should use for such extremists, whether it should be “ta’assub,” “irhabis,” “Islamists,” “extremists,” “radical Islam.” Years ago, I questioned if such lexicon debates were sensible if they led us to be in denial on real problems. Still, I underestimated how such hurt feelings might also prevent such a necessary dialogue. I urge Christians to start hearing about “Christian terrorists” and see how it makes them feel. But while we argue over lexicon, the two extreme ends of the spectrum on this issue continue to recruit followers. We need a national dialogue and lexicon for this debate in the United States, where many Americans do not know Arabic and terms like irhab and Hirabah are not understood.

I propose we consider something simpler such as “Bin Ladenism.”

If we look at the Bin Ladenist view of the world, that ideology also seeks to position the world through the defense of a religious extremist culture of its own. The failure by responsible leaders to challenge that ideological and human rights threat has left this largely to the vocal Anti-Islam advocates.

But the Bin Ladenist view not only rejects human rights and human dignity for non-Muslims, it also rejects them for Muslims as well.

One of the great historical failures has been the unwillingness of traditional human rights groups to aggressively take up the cause for women’s rights, religious freedom, in the face of groups, ideologies, and even nations that would justify stonings, “honor killings” of women, gays, and abuse and murder of people of all faiths – simply because of their identity. It has been and is a great moral wrong to ignore the ideology of the Bin Ladenists around the world.

Silence is not and must not be the answer.

Even when Bin Ladenist terrorists in the U.S. seek to plot attacks, such as Naser Abdo, we have silence.  And the world wonders why such cancerous silence has metastasized into a political Anti-Islam movement?

Certainly a large portion of this is understandable embarrassment and protectiveness in the Muslim American community.  But we need to have this dialogue in a way that we can debate this issue without blaming all Muslims and all of Islam for such extremists, so that interfaith leaders, human rights groups, and government agencies can play a responsible role.

It is true that any human rights issue has a struggle to get attention – from the genocide in Sudan, the concentration camps in Communist China and Communist North Korea, the killing of gays in Uganda, and the abuse of women in the Congo. All these and many more struggle to get the limited attention of busy people who wish they could do more, and many who have no idea such abuses are going on.

It is also true that every religious extremist group has their human rights areas of shame from “Hindu” “honor killings” in India, Christian extremist terrorists of the Lord’s Resistance Army (LRA) in Africa, the oppression of minorities in Uganda, and groups such as the Hutaree and the Westboro Baptist Church, who rationalize their hatred based on their extremist views of “Christianity.”

But few of these see the silence that we have seen with the oppression of minority Muslim sects and non-Muslims in too many “majority Muslim nations.” Two wrongs don’t make a right – and the media, the United Nations, human rights groups, and our governments remaining silent on these abuses – is another moral wrong.

We must challenge what is not only isolated cases of Bin Ladenist cultures but large numbers of individuals that seek to deny human rights for others – in any religion or any identity group.

About three years ago, I decided that I would develop the R.E.A.L. coalition on human rights where we would be consistent on these and other human rights issues. The week before one of our first event on International Women’s Day at the U.S. Capitol on March 2009, in Chechnya, the Chechen President brought a series of “loose women” out into the streets and had his police gun them down. The Chechen President claimed that his extremist view of Islam entitled him to kill such women in the streets. In Russia, they looked the other way. But not just in Russia, most of the world looked the other way. He committed murder in broad daylight to no objections, no world outcry, no marches or demands by feminist groups.

I and a few women stood in front of the U.S. Capitol and we were the only protest in the world.

We must not abandon our brothers and sisters around the world – of any identity group, any religion – to those who would rationalize violence, hate, or murder – based on their claim that their view of a religion justifies murder and oppression. That is not defending or respecting a culture. That is abandoning our shared identify as human beings with universal human rights.

We must refuse to let either anger or fear allow us to forsake our fellow human beings, their human rights, and their human dignity.

4. Our Shared Human Rights Are Greater Than Individual Cultures

We need to challenge extremist groups without accusations that there is a monolithic view of any religion as responsible for the actions of extremists. It is as absurd to claim all Muslims or all of Islam is to blame for specific extremists, as it would be to blame all Christians or all of Christianity is to blame for specific extremists. The world cannot move forward with such arguments that deny dignity, respect, and religious liberty for all. Our religious liberties exist – but abuse to our universal human rights remain the same – no matter where they are done or who is responsible for their abuse.

This argument for our universal human rights is so clear that both the Anti-Islam movement and the Bin Ladenist movement have rejected such shared human rights, and have chosen instead only defend “cultures” where they can decide who deserves freedoms, life, and liberty. In the United States and Europe, the Anti-Islam movement seeks to close mosques. In Indonesia and Egypt, the Bin Ladenist movement seeks to close churches. They seek to create closed societies, closed cultures, that will prohibit free choice, free thought, free speech, and free lives.

But we do not have a free world and a slave world. We do not have a “Muslim World” and Christendom.  While some may perceive that we have a world of divisions, the reality is that we live in a world of unity. We breathe the same air, see the same sun and moon, have the waters of the world that eventually touch us all in some way. We live together on this shared Earth, where universal human rights are the right of all people in every part, no matter who seeks to deny them.

We are not the divisions or labels that some would have us wear.  We are complex individuals with individual lives and aspirations.  But while are unique and special individuals, we are also a singular human race, with a singular human destiny – both for good and bad. We are accountable for our actions, just as we are entitled to our freedoms.

History has shown that every cage will eventually be broken. Those who seek to build new cages, new closed societies to defend only “one culture” fail to understand that we are not many. We are one. We are humanity.

We are not a mere collection of diverse cultures, but we are human beings with shared bodies, brains, joys, sorrows, and even dreams.
We can dream, like others have before us, of the day when we set our divisions aside, and we all recognize that we are truly all “free at last, free at last, free at last.”

But if every journey requires an initial step, let us start here. Let us stop hating one another.  If we let go of the rocks of hatred, we can begin to stop building artificial walls to divide one another.   Let us resolve to end hate as a cancer that will close our minds to the infinite possibilities of hope, joy, and unity that we can have together.

Choose Love, Not Hate. Love Wins.

Oslo and Finding the Courage to Change — A Responsibility for All (Part I)

We stand in sympathy and shared mourning with the people of Norway over their loss in the horrific terrorist attack of July 22, 2011 in Oslo. We can only imagine the pain of parents who have lost their children, and the pain of families that have lost their loved ones. They are not just numbers or statistics, but they were unique and special human beings who loved and were loved. As I am writing this, some of the first funerals have ended, and those families and friends have gone home to remember their loved ones.

While we may want to “make sense” of such horrific terrorism against innocent children and people, the truth is there is no rational reason for the monstrous actions that Anders Behring Breivik has confessed to committing.

But as the world watches the courage of the Norwegian people after this terrorist attack, we must also find the courage to urge our society to make changes that would discourage inspiring such individuals as Mr. Breivik. Too many have known too much for too long, and not done enough to stop the rise of hatred in our world. Our sympathies to the Oslo families must not be half-hearted regrets, but must be full-hearted commitment to find ways to change, including standing up for our responsibilities to one another.

We have many freedoms as human beings. But with great freedoms comes great responsibilities. Any cause or campaign for human rights must understand these basic aspects of human society.

Those who work in the vital and passionate cause of human freedom must also remember that the struggle for such universal human rights are for all people. That includes human rights for those we may disagree with, as common brothers and sisters in the human race – the only race that matters.

It has been my privilege to preside over a coalition of individuals passionate about human rights that periodically come together for different human rights issues, coordinated by Responsible for Equality And Liberty (R.E.A.L.). We address different human rights issues for people of all nationalities, religions, races, and genders, because equality and liberty is a right for all. When equality and liberty is denied for some, it is our problem as fellow human beings.

Our slogan has been “Choose Love, Not Hate. Love Wins.”

I was surprised to discover how controversial that slogan would be. A number of people have told me how weak it sounds, and how they did not find it sufficiently inspirational to “fight” for human rights. But we are not “fighting,” we are reaching out. We may challenge anti-freedom ideologies, and we may even confront organizations’ activities, but our goal is to reach out to our fellow human beings everywhere for consistency on the cause of our universal human rights.

While we may disagree with the ideas, words, and activities of some, as human beings we must reach out to offer love and our shared human rights to all, including those who would call themselves our enemies. Some may wonder how can we love those who view us as their enemies? But the real question is: how can stand for universal human rights and NOT love our fellow human beings? Our greatest defense for these rights is not our passion for campaigns and causes, but it is our compassion for one another as human beings.

There are some who believe that they can work for human rights, just for one culture, one religion, one race, one group, and not others, because they believe that only their group deserves such rights. That perspective negates the very term “human rights.”

Confessed terrorist Anders Behring Breivik may have believed that human beings in only some groups, religions, and cultures are entitled to human rights, and even life itself. But those who believe in human rights must always reject such exclusionary and supremacist philosophies – and we must never forget the grim results of such thinking. We must always remember that all human beings have human rights, including Mr. Breivik.

The challenge our society faces is how to balance our disagreements with dignity and compassion. For some and in some instances, this may be difficult. But we are reminded by the terrorist attack in Oslo, what happens when we do not make love and dignity for our fellow human beings our first priority.

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This will be continued in “Oslo and Finding the Courage to Change — A Commitment to Change Our Dialogue (Part II).”

R.E.A.L.: We Mourn for Norway

Responsible for Equality And Liberty (R.E.A.L.) mourns with the people of Norway over the deaths and the loss of their loved ones.  Personally, I offer my prayers for all the victims and my prayers and sympathies to all the families of the victims who lost their loved ones.

Love will win.

We Mourn with All of Norway (Photo Credit: REUTERS / Cathal McNaughton)

How Hate and Emotional Storms Plan to Destroy Us

In another of the articles on love and hate during the moratorium against hate, I address the challenge of hate and emotional storms attacking society.

In the struggle throughout America to deal with the national problem of obesity, the well-meaning advocates of exercise, diet, and responsibility complete ignore the number one cause for obesity: how we live today. I don’t mean the references to our sedentary lifestyles, the unhealthy foods promoted, or the atmosphere that discourages exercise.  We hear about those problems frequently.  It is popular to talk about these failures in American culture on talk show on television, watched by people who are told if only you walk more, or if only you eat more broccoli, etc., your life will be better.

But these debates don’t mention the larger problem of the emotional storms of abuse, anger, hopelessness, and even hatred against ourselves and one another. Moreover, we view such emotional storms as someone else’s problem, not a societal responsibility to address.  We have emergency repair organizations and the Red Cross to deal with physical storms, floods, and disasters.

But who can the millions turn to in dealing with the crises of emotional storms that regularly lash our lives as human beings?  Some turn to their religious faiths, a very small number seek counseling.  But the vast majority who face such emotional storms are simply ignored, forgotten, and expected to address their issues without guidance and without help.  Society believes that emotional storms, after all, aren’t “real storms” and they don’t really require societal involvement.

We have entire television channels devoted to addressing and preparedness for physical weather storms, but when it comes to emotional storms within our lives, American society largely fails to even acknowledge that they are a societal problem.  They are, after all, just “part of life,” or as years ago people would say “into every life some rain must fall” when dealing with emotional trauma, fear, hopelessness, abuse, and anger.

For many, they find shelter from such storms in “comfort foods” as their drug of choice to help cope with emotional storms and trauma. Then we wonder why we have a national problem with obesity, and many blame the “laziness” of our public for this.  This spins the wheel of negativity once again, as the latest self-help doctor on television tells the public, if only you would eat better, work out more, you would not be overweight or sick.  How we feel as human beings and as a society?  That’s too complicated and it takes too much time (see “life at the speed of hate”).  Our society has the same approach to cigarette, alcohol, drug addiction.  The addictions are the problem, not our lives, not the emotional storms that we ignore as a society.

We are too busy building our prosperity to care about how each other feels.  This then gives us the money to find countermeasures to the food, alcohol, drug, etc. self-medication attempts to cope with the real problem of the emotional storms within our lives — that we choose to ignore as a society. But the result is the same regardless of what we use to self-medicate ourselves in the emotional storms that lash our lives.  There is no visible option or consideration for many to channel their lives to help their community, to help in social responsibility, as a means to cope with these problems. Too many have lives that are solely centered around the stress, anger, abuse, fear, and hopelessness in their own lives – yet our society does not acknowledge this as a problem.  There is no association with this problem and our larger societal struggles with hate.

What does it have to do with hate?

It is not just that people feel hopeless, powerless, and frustrated in their lives.

Too many hate their lives and they hate themselves. While American television shows promote the latest diets, the latest execise machines, we allow a national epidemic of self-hatred to go unchallenged and even unacknowledged. Society allow us to believe that hating ourselves is fine.   Then we wonder why we are an angry nation.

So if our society tolerates self-hatred, why should our society expect to challenge hatred against others?  It may not be as socially acceptable in some areas, but when we teach acceptance of hatred – no matter who it is directed at – we are teaching acceptance of the most destructive force against all of humanity.

Once we are taught that it is acceptable to hate ourselves, too many are ultimately driven to hate their fellow human beings. It is a short distance to travel.

Such hatred (towards ourselves and each other) and such emotional storms don’t simply seek to kill us.  They seek to DESTROY us as human beings from the inside one at a time. Then collectively, the virus of hatred and indifference to our fellow human beings spreads and becomes a way of societal life.

Hate seeks to turn our human bodies into inhuman vessels of negativity, violence, and hatred towards humanity itself.  Ultimately, there is nothing that the inhuman grip of hatred would not force us to do, even destroy humanity itself.  Hate is the ultimate in self-destructive forces in humanity.

But we can choose another path.  We can give victory to tolerance, have the courage of compassion, and build a path and platform to love and compassion.  Even when we think we are enslaved by our problems and pressed into a corner by our emotional storms, we still can choose.  There is another way.

All of us in our society struggles between hate and tolerance every day.  Every time we show restraint, every time we offer compassion and mercy, we take another step towards human dignity in our societies.  But our world and our lives are often beset with emotional storms that we must acknowledge as a society.  We must find ways to protect our hearts and minds from the abuse, not simply internalize the abuse and allow it to become a part of our identities.  When abuse seeks to drive us to hate, we must reach instead for love.

But of all those we must love, we must first love ourselves as worthy human beings.

When the voices attacking us from without and from within rage around us, we must find a quiet place of human sanctuary that will not allow our self worth, our self dignity to be denied.  When hate seeks to invade our sanctuary of self, we must tell hate “we will not be moved.”

In that quiet place of humanity, we must reaffirm to Choose Love, Not Hate – Love Wins.

A Month Without Hate

Let us say no to hate.  It is something that we have the power individually to do.   On January 13, we saw a 9 year old girl born on 9/11 who was buried in Arizona, murdered by a man who sought to assassinate Congresswoman Giffords and shooting a crowd who went to see her.  The response has been more anger, more venom, and some places even more hate.   We can say “enough.”  And it is time for us to see for ourselves how much control that hate has over our lives.

So we offer this challenge to ourselves and to you.  Let us try a one month moratorium on hate – whether it is those who call others “thugs” or preach about the “worst people in the world.”  Let us step away from such venom, harsh words, and accusations, and yes, hatred, towards others for one month – from January 14 to February 14, concluding on Valentine’s Day.

We could have picked any day to attempt this moratorium on hate, but let’s start now – let’s start today.

Furthermore, we offer you  an Online Petition to take a public stand and tell the world that you will join this one month without hate at:
http://www.petitiononline.com/mowohate/petition.html

Then tell us your experiences, and we will anonymously (unless you want to be public on them) report them here on February 14.  Let us see individually what a struggle it is to go a month without hate, and see what type of grip hate has on our lives as individuals.

To take a stand against hate, we declare our intentions and our goals to take charge of our lives and declare a month-long moratorium on hate.  We seek to reject hate in our lives from in this month from January 14 to February 14.  We seek to stop allowing hate-filled images, words, and comments in our individual lives and not allow hate to be a source of entertainment or interest in our daily lives.

We seek first and foremost to change hate in OUR lives, before we seek to change the lives of others.  We will use this month where we reject hate in our lives to be consistent on hate.

We will reject the hate that continues to be spread throughout the world in many ways and many places, on the Internet, in public, in private, in media outlets, among politicians, and among ourselves.

We will reject hate against identity groups of our fellow human beings’ race, religion, nationality, creed, gender, sexual orientation, and we commit that it will not be a part of our lives for the next month.  We will reject all slurs and cruel terms against our fellow human beings.

To those who seek to cling to hate, we offer an outstretched hand, not an upraised fist.  They too are our brothers and sisters in humanity.

We urge all to join us in this month long moratorium rejecting hate in our lives.

We urge all to Choose Love, Not Hate – Love Wins.

We take this public stance to prove that we have the Courage to defy hate in our own lives.